Saturday, July 18, 2009

Photos from Before During and After the wedding - just photos.

Courtesy of the intrepid paparazzi otherwise known as Kathleen - here are her photos for our clamouring public.

By the way, the chappie with the puzzled look holding up a wedding certificate is of course none other than the person who actually writes this drivel - me.

For those who saw that view of my reaction to the wedding my apologies. I really was and am more enthusiastic about it all.





















Note: the last four photos above seem to have been in the camera for some time and so were apparently taken well before the wedding - really well before - simply because the features of both the people featured are in such good condition compared with the faces on the participants at the actual wedding. Equally the garden furniture on view is not something that was available at the site of the wedding. Just a thought, but for the sake of accuracy I think it is necessary to mention this.

Nice photos and deserving of publication, but not really part of the wedding series in my view.

Have you heard about the Kindle?

A reader from Amazon.Com at various price ranges is the latest in machinery enabling the reading of books and what used to be paper publications in an electronic or should that be digital format wherever you are.

Most publications available in this format seem to be neatly priced in the competitive $9.99 basket. Of course you may have to consider the fact that first you have to purchase the reader and the batteries that sustain it. Then it's $x for each publication you may wish to purchase and place in the reader. It's nice enough to watch the video on line about this product at the following site http://www.amazon.com/Kindle-Amazons-Original-Wireless-generation/dp/B000FI73MA

The discussions behind the scenes about copyright, cost attribution, changes in this market over time, the various and no doubt multiple standards for the type of lighting, viewing size, books capable of being held, how purchases are "saved" and stored somewhere to ensure that your purchase remains yours etc etc are all grist to the mill of a debate that I have not even seen much less participated in. However, what a fabulous debate. What vexed questions arise. How are they going to be resolved in a variety of settings across the world where regulations and the costs of living are so different. Where there are no doubt different standards that apply and whether questions about storage and retention are not as yet available for easy perusal in the hunt I have been able to launch from my PC up to this point.

Let's hear it now - the discussion from consumers for whom the iPod was the music revolution's beginning. Let's hear it from authors and how their work is to be valued and priced. Let's hear it from authorities who see yet another bureaucracy or ???

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

The Australian National Maritime Museum, and the Migration Experience

The Welcome Wall - now going for ten years since 1999. Some 20,000 people are featured at present with a data base behind the names that are featured. These names celebrate those who came by and lived through and with the sea.

In this case the names of Peter G - aka Garpet in this instance and his parents Leo G and Katalin G are featured among the 900 people who have been included among the 100 metres of migrant names.

I will be making sure that the museum is sent the stories of my parents and myself for inclusion in their data base. Thus, at some future time, researchers of both my immediate family and the extensive family of my wife Leanne S and her ancestors who migrated far earlier than mine did.

They were instrumental in creating some of the infrastructure that exists today. For example - Henry S was one of those who participated in the Warragamba dam creation. This supplies much of Sydney' water supply. As it happens, another of the family I have joined by marriage also works for Sydney Water. Thus a 'tradition' may have been created.

In my own place my marriage to my new spouse has mixed into a 'tradition' that involves the the provision of social work services in a variety of settings.

For my part - I have been involved in the provision of services to migrants from 1972 onward when the concept of integration replaced the policy of assimilation. A new policy was created by the then new Minister of Immigration and Ethnic Affairs Al Grassby.

A lot has changed since 1957 when my family arrived in this country. So much that in fact it is hard to pick where to start. Perhaps as a maritime experience, when we arrived the AMP building was the tallest building on the Sydney foreshore.

If you look at Sydney today a lot is different. There is an Opera House where my father could now have found work instead of being told there were no opportunities to teach opera singers. My mother might well have been able to continue with her career as an opera singer or chosen to continue her education at the University level instead of having to work in a clothing factory eventually rising to the august position as a foreperson checking the quality of the work of others while at home she and the other members of the family did piece work putting together cheap jewellery just to make ends meet.

Having now travelled extensively around the world - I know for a certainty that the opportunities provided for my generation were far greater and enabled me to finish high school, go to University on a scholarship and obtain not one, but eventually three degrees with which I have been able to carve out not one, but at least two careers that gave me the satisfaction of enjoying that work and to pay back just some of the opportunities given to me. All this would have been of some joy to my parents both of whom died alas before they could bear witness to the fact that their seemingly cracked idea of travelling to the ends of the earth where they knew not the language and where their knowledge and understanding of the country and culture was virtually zero.

They took the risk instead of waiting to be permitted entry to the USA as other members of the family had done. They did not wait even further in a refugee camp in Salzburg they took a punt and it paid off. Having visited the USA and my relatives there I have to say I admire their pluck and can only say that it was rewarded - perhaps not for them, but certainly for me.

For my relatives in the USA, I can only say this - if your stories of arrival, learning, integration and opportunity differ and not necessarily for the better, then this highlights how lucky my parents' decision was for us. Perhaps we can discuss off line and compare the experiences.

For those of my family who chose to remain behind in Hungary for whatever reason - looking at your decisions and how they have effected the generations since the 1956 revolution would also be an interesting task - especially as the economic and political situations have changed in that country over time.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Special Announcement WE ARE MARRIED!

Left to right;
Pen and Ben the photographers; the happy, but tired couple with Wedding Certificate; The S family with the new inclusion PGG.

Due to identity theft from the net I have had to shorten to first names only and no surnames.

The last shot has Doug H; Peter G; (aka Garpet to some) mother in law Nancy S; Jessee S-H; Leanne S; Narelle S; Greg S; Wendy S.

So far I have been provided with some 40 photos from this photographer alone. There has to be a limit on what I can place on line. Sorry about that. If individuals wish to see their photos I can send them to you, (and I will) but please let me be selective on what I place on line.


WEDDING CEREMONY

between

Peter G G and Leanne S

Sunday 5 July 2009

(names and locations have been adjusted or deleted to stop prying little eyes on the net - sorry about that!)
  1. OPENING WELCOME
Dear Family and Friends

Welcome.

We are present today to share and be witness to the marriage between Leanne and Peter.

It is a public, legal and emotional action that they are taking today and we are present to bear witness to their long term commitment to each other. Their commitment has been nearly 16 years in duration and they wish to acknowledge the importance of each to the other during that time as well as for the time they have left together.

Your presence here today is much appreciated because as family and friends of Leanne and Peter, you have shown love, friendship and support through the challenges they have experienced, individually and as a couple, in the past and now.

Leanne and Peter would also like to mention those very important people who cannot be with us today due to distance or illness. They would especially like to mention Peter's family who are scattered throughout Europe , the USA and Canada.

There are also those who are no longer with us but have been key people in Peter and Leanne's lives, namely, Leanne's father, Henry C J S and Peter's parents Leo and Katalin G. Words cannot express the loss that their passing has brought to Leanne and Peter but they both carry so many treasured memories, lessons and personal characteristics from them that they are never forgotten or without constant importance in their daily lives.

  1. WORDS EXPLAINING THEIR DESIRE FOR MARRIAGE
Leanne and Peter believe that marriage is founded on qualities of sincerity and understanding and that these qualities lead to tolerance, confidence and trust. They have respect for each other's individuality as well as the acceptance of each other's strengths and weaknesses.

They met and commenced their relationship in 1993 as mature individuals, uncertain, but having identified great and admirable strengths and characteristics in each other which they thought were, and have proved to be, very important and worthwhile. Their different backgrounds, cultures, personalities and situations presented challenges in the first few years which were sometimes difficult but added interest and complexity to the relationship. Their strength of character, love and acceptance of each other's individuality, professional and personal dedication, love of education, culture and travel all melded together to make the dynamic, loving and enduring relationship that we see today.

After almost 16 years together, they have lived together through sickness and health as well as good and bad times.

Their mutual interest in genealogy has fuelled their curiosity about each others lives and the pasts of their family, relatives and ancestors. Travelling overseas to investigate and follow up on some of these people and the places in which they lived has added richness and greater understanding about each other.

Leanne and Peter wish to add their names to the marriage register, to celebrate their long commitment and love for each other and to cement their place together in their families' histories so that people will always know what they mean to each other.

  1. COMPULSORY SECTION
I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law.

Before you are joined in marriage, in our presence, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter.

Marriage according to law in Australia, is the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.

  1. READING

“(Being in) Love is a temporary madness; it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being “in love” has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.

Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two. “

(Extract from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernieres)

  1. VOWS
Celebrant to Groom
Peter will you take Leanne , who stands here with you today, to be your lawful wedded wife. Will you respect her, be honest with her and stand by her whatever may come, as long as you both shall live?

Peter
I will

Celebrant to Bride
Leanne, will you take Peter, who stands here with you today, to be your lawful wedded husband. Will you respect him, be honest with him and stand by him whatever may come, as long as you both shall live?

Leanne
I will.

Celebrant
Please face each other, join hands and repeat after me

Peter
I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, Peter G G, take you, Leanne S, to be my lawful wedded wife. I promise to care for you, respect your needs and accept you as you are.

Leanne
I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, Leanne S, take you, Peter G G, to be my lawful wedded husband. I promise to care for you, respect your needs and accept you as you are.

  1. RING CEREMONY
The act of giving and receiving rings reminds us that love itself is an act of giving and receiving the most that life has to offer. These rings are the natural symbols for enduring love. They represent an outward sign of commitment signifying to all the bond of marriage the two of your share.
Please repeat after me:

Peter
Leanne, I offer this ring as a token of my love and all we share in our relationship. With this ring I thee wed in the warmth and witness of all present.

Leanne
Peter, I offer this ring as a token of my love and all we share in our relationship. With this ring I thee wed in the warmth and witness of all present.

  1. CLOSING WORDS
May these two people, now married, keep this arrangement which they have made.

May they be a blessing and a comfort to each other, sharers of each other's joys, consolers of each other's sorrows, helpers to each other in all the uncertainties of life. May they encourage each other in whatever they set out to achieve. May they trust in each other and not be afraid. May they not only accept and give affection between themselves, but also have affection and consideration for others.

  1. CONCLUSION
Ladies and Gentlemen

Leanne and Peter have declared before us all that they will live together in marriage. They have made promises to each other. They have symbolised these promises by joining hands, taking vows and exchanging rings. May peace and love be with you always.

Leanne & Peter's

Wedding Menu

5 July 2009

Drinks

Sparkling Wine

Red and White Wine

Juice

Lemonade, Coke, mineral and soda waters

Antipasto

Dolmades

Olives

Artichokes

Dips

Cheeses

Biscuits

Rice crackers (gluten free)

Finger food

Smoked salmon and caper/caviar bites

Chicken wings (soy and tandoori)

Fresh prawn spring rolls (gluten and lactose free)

Hot dishes

Veal Moroccan with Cous Cous (gluten and lactose free)

Mild Vegetable Curry with Rice (Vegetarian; gluten and lactose free)

Fish pie

Salad

Mixed green salad (Gluten free)

Pear, Parmesan and Rocket salad (Gluten free, contains lactose)

Dessert

Tiramisu Cake

Flourless Orange and Almond Cake (Gluten Free)

Mixed slices